Choose between personal and reflexive pronouns

🗼 Reflexive pronouns are pronouns that end in -self or -selves.

Subject (singular)Reflexive pronoun
Imyself
youyourself
sheherself
hehimself
ititself
Subject (plural)   Reflexive pronoun
weourselves
youyourselves
theythemselves

🗼 Reflexive pronouns are used to refer back to the subject of a sentence. They should match the subject.

  • We helped ourselves to some more soup.
  • The subject of the sentence is we, so use ourselves.
  • Amy drives herself to work every morning.
  • The subject of the sentence, Amy, can be called she, so use herself.

🗼 A reflexive pronoun can only be used to refer to the subject. To refer to someone else or something else, a personal pronoun, like me, you, him, her, it, us, or them, should be used instead.

  • Jake wrote a note for himself.
  • The reflexive pronoun, himself, refers back to the subject, Jake.
  • Jake wrote a note for him.
  • The personal pronoun, him, must refer to someone other than the subject, Jake.

Learn with an example

  • you
  • yourself
  • The missing pronoun does not refer to the subject, I.
  • So, you should not use a reflexive pronoun. Instead, use the personal pronoun you.
  • me
  • myself
  • The missing pronoun refers to the subject, so it should be a reflexive pronoun.
  • The subject is I, so use the matching reflexive pronoun, myself.
  • you
  • yourself
  • The missing pronoun refers to the subject, so it should be a reflexive pronoun.
  • The subject is you, so use the matching reflexive pronoun, yourself.
  • us
  • ourselves
  • The missing pronoun does not refer to the subject, the astronaut.
  • So, you should not use a reflexive pronoun. Instead, use the personal pronoun us.

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